why miss you

Sometimes I can remember someone easily,It looks like waking up the golden memory by something. So I always regard me as  a guy who cant forget  the friends during the golden time. Maybe everyone has the same experience as me.My question is ” WHY I MISS YOU? OR WHY I MISS THEM? “.

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一个人也可以很好,就像这样(转)

一个人也可以很好,就像这样

一个人久了,会懒得恋爱
一个人久了,朋友会越重要
一个人久了,会越来越喜欢听歌
一个人久了,电话会常常忘记带
一个人久了,就会养成一个怪癖
一个人久了,对爱情会越来越挑剔

一个人久了,除了寂寞点外还是蛮开心的
一个人久了,会慢慢变得成熟起来
一个人久了,会比以前更重视更爱父母,更重视亲情
一个人久了,对所有的节日大多没什么期待
一个人久了,听到看到别人一对对的很甜蜜,心里多少还是会有些介意

一个人久了,会喜欢买很多鞋子,带自己去很多很远的地方
一个人久了,会觉得无拘无束自由自在天宽地广
一个人久了,爱情会变得越来越不重要,取而代之的是钱和事业
一个人久了,会越来越理性,越来越现实

总之,一个人久了,是很幸福的时光……
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每日随感

—谈电影《山楂树之恋》

跟一朋友谈起有没有看《山楂树》,他慨叹道:“这么纯美的爱情,到头来竟然是悲剧,不是很好!”。我随口说道:“生活本来就是很难完美的,如果你的生活是完美的或者接近完美,那么请珍惜它。或许悲剧结尾的意义正在于此。”

Simple is not Easy

实际上,应该是“简单并不容易”,也就是Simple is not Easy.在我们的日常口语中,简单和容易之间的区别真是微妙。实际我们都知道,simple is quite often Difficult.

好吧,我现在已经能准确的理解simple不是easy这个语义上的分别了,所以就开始对 What is the simplest thing? 有点兴趣了,因为大家越来越多的说YAGNI和TSTCPW。不过,Udi Dahan告诉大家It’s does not matter,因为

The reason it doesn’t matter is that we don’t have to be 100% right the first time is because we’re going to be changing it over, and over, and over again.

只要我们沿着TDD经典的Red/Green/Refactoring小步快跑, Continue reading »Simple is not Easy

cant vs difficult

This Morning I suddenly have one idea about “cant and difficult”.

Sometimes when we meet a problem or a big problem which challenge us strongly, we have two choices.

First ,we say “Oh It cant be handled, It’s impossible!”,yeah that means The problem challenge you  truely.

Second, we say “Yeah,It looks like difficult to find a solution.but Maybe Ican try one time.”  which means you want to control the problem and your attitude about it. Continue reading »cant vs difficult