偶然读到一篇，老外关于三年之痒的文章，看了一下，觉得不错分享一下。:)
虽然自己还从未正儿八经的谈过恋爱，但是没办法古老的双鱼座，永远喜欢以老者乃至智者的眼光审视世界，所以总是能够莫名其妙的了解不同角色，不同年龄的人的遭遇，有的时候会有一种自己也曾如此生活过的穿越，世事轮换就像西藏庙宇外永不停息的转轴，转经筒，不只是人又来世转生，也暗存好运歹运的轮转，但是很多经历的事情境遇，仿佛宿命一般，没办法，赶上了，就躲不开了，我们能做的就是学习如何面对才不会让事情变得更糟。还好受惠于“命运的流转”每个人做错，都会有改正的机会，哪怕机会只有一瞬。
略有感慨，不说了直接转：
Do You Really Think it’s the Right Time to Breakup?
After a sizzling 3 year what supposed to be an eternal relation with my girl, I recently started observing little shakes and cracks n our relation. I felt may be the eternal time of breakup has come! There are the days that I agree whatever she says, or she used to agree whatever I say. Those days I felt like a good relation always depends on trust and most importantly compromise. I quit smoking just for her, and she changed couple of her habits only for me. Though we are not officially married, I can say that our bond is much stronger.
I cannot agree with her anymore, and so does she. Oh God, what damage can time do to a relation! May be it’s the fact, many breakups do happen just for only one reason, a change. Same old face, same old voice and same old affection and who knows we might get bored of it. So breakup is for? It’s just for newness in life. I sat down and kept thinking about love, affection and relation and whatnot, my heart started pumping and pumping, I am excited reminding those old days of excitement and fun. I wanted them back, the silent language we used to speak with eyes, the excitement we used have on bed, the sweet pain in senses when she hugged me! I want them back. I think you all understand why I am breaking up, for that fact; most men and women break up just because they were bored of relation.
I found similar feelings her. First time in our relation, we hided something between us. May be we fools forgot we can simply read each other minds just watching eyes. Whenever there are some sweet movements of late, I felt like I am acting with her. I know I lost it. I am peeping into her mails and SMS. I am feeling week about my relation. The funniest part is I am afraid I might lose her. If she ever come and propose for a breakup, it can make my heart go pieces. I want something new in life; I don’t want to lose her. Days she woke up whole night for me when I am sick, days she kinda spent lot of her money when I am in need of it. Stupid mind, I don’t want to lose her, I still want something new in life.
Many couples, especially men stuck up in same position like me. It looks perfect time for a breakup, but are damn afraid of consequences they might face in near future. I finally decided to breakup with her. Reason? As told above, I preferred something new in life; after all it’s my life. It’s lot better than living in a perversion of peeping in her mails. I decided to express my feelings to her over the breakup issue. I thought for a while and decided I take a good two days off from home before I do. I left the city and went to my granny’s village.
I just had given myself a two extra days before I talk to her. I explored lonely roads of countryside all the night. I recalled all my days with her. I remembered the very first day of our relation, where I followed her from super market all the way to her home! I remembered my first word with her ‘You look so good’. I still remember her frisky smile on listening to this. She is innocent, good hearted and very sweet. I entered her life; I won her heart which was the only achievement of life! Am I thinking to leave her? I went back home, she is in kitchen preparing something. I just hugged her from back, God! I found her smile again. I said to myself ‘I cannot live without you, please don’t leave me’. I am a fool, she can listen what my heart says!
If you think it’s the right to breakup with your partner, just give one extra day before you tell. Stay away from her and recall all your glorious days. Remind the sweetness of your relation, and trust me you can never leave your partner.
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