恋爱中的水瓶座男人（转）

恋爱中的水瓶座男人

恋爱中的水瓶男堪比童话故事中的白马王子，浑身上下散发着魅力。 

The Aquarius is the eleventh sign of the Zodiac and people born between 21st January and 19th February belong to this sign. Aquarius, symbolized by a pitcher or a water bearer, is an air sign. In the earlier times, Saturn was the ruling planet of Aquarius until the discovery of Uranus. Upon its discovery, Uranus, its true ruler, was assigned to Aquarius. Therefore, both Saturn and Uranus are considered as ruling planets of Aquarius. According to Hindu astrology, Aquarius is equivalent to ‘Kumbha’ which means pitcher in Sanskrit. Before knowing about the traits of Aquarius man in love, let us take a look at some personality characteristics of Aquarius male in brief.

水瓶座在十二个星座中排名十一，区间是21/1-19/2.水瓶座的星象符号是水罐或者拿水罐的人，属于风象星座。早些时候，天王星还没有被发现，土星一直被认为是水瓶座的守护星，天王星被发现之后，也被分配到水瓶座。因此，天王星、土星都是瓶子们的守护星。根据印度占星术，”Aquarius”等同于”Kumbha”，在梵语中的意思是水罐。在介绍水瓶男的恋爱特征之前，我们先来看看水瓶座男人的性格特征。 

Aquarius Sign Traits

水瓶座性格

Aquarius personalities are one of the most unpredictable one among all Zodiac signs (even surpassing Gemini at times). They are extremely energetic and over zealous about more than one cause. They are also very social, friendly and lively individuals. Friendliness is one of the most remarkable and characteristic traits of Aquarius sign. They love making friends while in turn, people also get attracted to their sheer charm and quick wit. One of the other important traits of Aquarius individuals is that they love their independence and fiercely protect it. They often take an unusual path, thanks to their intellect and offbeat ideas. On the darker side, they have their bouts of detachment. They also seem unemotional and are natural rebels. However, Aquarian man’s intelligence, good nature, friendliness definitely makes him successful in life. With so many qualities, one is sure to fall in love with an Aquarius male. So what are the traits of an Aquarius man in love? Let us take a look at it in detail.

水瓶座是十二个星座中最难以琢磨的（有的时候比双子座还复杂）。他们充满活力，热衷于多项事业。他们友好、活跃、会交际。友好是水瓶座的一大性格特征。他们喜欢交友，周围的人也往往被他们十足的魅力、活跃的思维所吸引。水瓶座另一个重要的人格特征是热爱独立并且坚决捍卫它。满腹的才华和非主流的思想常常使水瓶座不走寻常路。另一方面，他们常显冷漠，看起来有些不近人情，是天生的反叛者。然而，水瓶座男人凭借聪明的才智、善良的天性，在人生中无往不利。拥有这么多美好的品质，水瓶男怎能让人不喜欢？水瓶座的男人陷入恋爱又有什么特征呢？让我们仔细瞧瞧。

Aquarius Man in Love

恋爱中的水瓶座

Aquarius men do not fall in love easily. They are intellectuals by nature and look for a partner who can match up to their intellectual level. Only once they feel that you can stimulate them intellectually, they will be ready to commit to you. One of the peculiar traits about Aquarius men is that they may get into a relationship easily, but maintaining it can be bothersome. As mentioned above, their independence means a lot to them and it takes a lot of time for them to accept that they have to compromise on their independence when in a relationship. They cannot ever get along with clingy or dominating women. They usually fall for intellectual, practical and independent women, who appeal to their logical mind. Extreme and mushy emotions confuse them, scare them and drive them away. You need to be his best friend first before being his partner.

水瓶座陷入爱情并不容易，他们智力超群，当然也会寻找在智力上可以匹配的另一半。一旦他们觉得你可以给他智力上的激励，他们便会做好准备，忠诚于你。水瓶座男人很容易陷入一段关系，但是要维系它就显得麻烦十足。就像上面提到的他们珍惜个性的独立，恋爱就意味着不得不做出妥协，牺牲一部分个人独立，要他们接受这一点得花上一段时间。他们和喜欢依恋的可人女生和喜好支配的女强人绝对相处不好。他们会为聪明、实际、独立、有逻辑头脑的女人所吸引。你表现出的极端的、伤感的情绪会让他们困惑、恐慌甚至逃离。在做他的终身伴侣之前要先设法成为他最好的朋友。

It is better to warn you that Aquarius man in love is not as charming as he appears as a friend or a colleague. Aquarius characteristics like rebellion nature and unpredictability makes them to have a completely different outlook towards life and its aspects. His abstract ideas, eccentric nature and stubbornness is quite difficult to understand. Secondly, comes their streak of detachment which makes them cold and withdrawn. However, once you accept it as a part of his nature, life can be easier. Leave him alone in these times, live your life and greet him back after a couple of days with same vibrancy and you will have him forever.

有必要提醒你的是瓶子作为男友可没有他做朋友或同事时看着有魅力。水瓶座性格中的反叛、难以预测性使他们对生活的各个方面都有不同的看法。他善用抽象思维、个性古怪，有时候特别固执，这些都很难以理解。再有，他们骨子里的冷漠有时会转化成外在的冷淡和退缩。但是如果你接受了他的个性，相处起来就容易多了。有些时候让他们自己清静清静，你先过好自己的日子，几天之后他们回来，你还是一如既往地高兴地迎接，这样的话，瓶子再也不会和你分开了。

You will be happy to know that Aquarius man in love are very loyal and true. They will hardly ever express their emotions and even the declarations of love will be at a bare minimum. However, do not question his loyalty as he will rarely break your trust without telling you (at times, Aquarius men can exactly tell you what they think, which can even be hurtful). You have to live with the fact that he simply has too many friends and they are equally important to the as you are. Try to be social, interact with his friends and you will make life easier and happier for both of you. The Aquarius male in love will respect your freedom as much as he respects his own. He will rarely doubt your integrity and will be the last person to get overly possessive and envious. However, remember that if you break the trust of your Aquarius man, he will coolly cut the ties and never look back.

水瓶座一旦恋爱就会既忠诚又真心，这一点是不是让你欣慰呢？他们不善于表达感情，也极少说“我爱你”，但是绝对不要怀疑他的忠诚，他很少会辜负你的信任还瞒着你（有时候水瓶男会告诉你他们到底怎么想的，这样说不定更伤人。）你不得不接受他有太多朋友这一事实，而且这些朋友对他来说和你一样重要。你要学着交际，和他的朋友们多接触，这样你们两个人的生活都会变得轻松愉快。恋爱中的水瓶座男人会尊重你的自由，就像他尊重自己的自由一样。他们很少质疑你的忠诚，也没有那么强的占有欲，不会嫉妒。然而你要记住，一旦你失去了水瓶座男人的信任，他们就会绝情的斩断和你的一切联系，再也不会回头了。

Aquarius man in love is also very romantic and amorous and there will be no dearth for romance. However, it is best advisable to limit your declarations of love and endearments. Do not appear dependent on him, neither nag him or he will see it as a threat to his independence. If you remember these simple things, you will have a charming partner with whom you can have a stimulating conversation on almost any topic. His energy level and ideas will definitely inspire you and make you see the world in different light. Zodiac signs like Libra and Gemini are best compatible with the Aquarius. Other signs may require a lot of understanding and compromise.

恋爱中的水瓶男既浪漫又多情，你们的爱情里绝对少不了浪漫情调。但是我还是要提醒你，切忌你对爱的表达太过泛滥。不要对他表现出依赖，甚至是小小的唠叨，他都会看作是对独立人格的威胁。如果你记住了这些简单的事情，你的伴侣就会既有魅力又可以无话不谈。他的活力和想法一定会激发你的灵感，促使你换个角度看世界。天秤座和双子座和水瓶座最为般配。其他星座要想和水瓶座白头偕老需要很多理解和妥协。

Remember that Aquarius man in love is not overly different than he is as your friend. Do not try to tame him, give him a free rein and just follow him and you are sure to keep him for a lifetime. Good luck!

记住瓶子作为你的爱人和作为你的朋友并没有天壤之别，不要试图驯服他，学会给他自由，在背后默默地跟着他，你们一定可以白头偕老，美满一生。祝你们好运！

By Madhura P

作者：Madhura P

Published: 6/23/2010

发表于2010年6月23日